Fetish

fet·ish

   /ˈfɛtɪʃ, ˈfitɪʃ/ Show Spelled[fet-ish, fee-tish]  

–noun

1.

an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.

2.

any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.

3.

Psychology . any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.

 

 

Ok, ladies and gentlemen, this is today's topic.  Now, now, dont shy away.  There isnt anything necessarily bad about fetishes.  I mean, look at that first definition....or the second, for that matter.  Yes, society has made everyone focus on the third definition almost exclusively and we will get to that one, but we're going to look at the other ones first - specifically MY fetishes...of course this is MY blog, about ME!

 

I have a few but only a couple of them are actual sexual turn-ons. Mostly, they are objects of awe.  Things that I love to see, that draw me in...kinda like really good art or really good music.  Smoking. I smoke.  I quit periodically...a year here, 6 or 7 years there, then I pick it back up.  My smoking fetish isnt about me smoking; its seeing another. Sometimes I see a picture of a 20 something standing next to a downtown building.  Male or female doesnt matter. Mostly the photos are black and white but not always.  This person is with friends or alone but they either have a cigarette in their hand, up to their mouth or blowing out smoke - thats all it takes.  I love it.  Its somewhat erotic but it doesnt turn me on, really. It just draws me.  I can look at it all day.

Another one?  Goth girls.  No, not the little teeny-boppers and not the emo cutters.  lol  I like the pics of the girls with odd colored hair and odd piercings. But what really gets me? the above the knee socks you see in the pictures.  LOVE IT!  Stripes!  Black and whatever, multi colored. I dont care.  I love those socks!!

Tattoos....good ones, on anyone

Corsets. I love them. The real ones.  Steel boning with double lacing up the back.

See? Not much there that is sexual. Just little fetishes that I enjoy.  Things I like to see...or wear.

 

Now.  The OTHER fetish.  I dont have many of them either. The few I do have are considered odd and I wont go into them just yet.  Lets just say I have a different lifestyle than most of you norms out there.  We'll get more into that another time...and no, its not going to be a porn blog.  Just a glimpse into a different kind of lifestyle that most people know little about and what little they know is mostly wrong.  

If you'd like, comment and leave some of your NON-sexual fetishes.